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Reflections and guidance for life’s difficult moments, when clarity is needed more than advice. For when you don’t know what to do. When you lack clarity and awareness.

The Viral “Nihilist Penguin Death March”: Footprints in the Ice That Became a Blueprint for the Human Soul

The Viral “Nihilist Penguin Death March”: Footprints in the Ice That Became a Blueprint for the Human Soul How a viral penguin walk became a symbol of loneliness, courage, and the quiet rebellion of the human soul The loner penguin moving to the mountains of Antarctica, leaving behind its colony and its fellow penguins, has […]

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How to Overcome the Desire for Revenge When Someone Hurts You Deeply?

How to Overcome the Desire for Revenge when someone hurts you deeply?

How to Overcome the Desire for Revenge when someone hurts you deeply? No revenge, because the person they are is a punishment enough. It starts with a stabbing pain inside your soul, one that fills you with revolt more than it heals you. Even when all you need is to face that immeasurable pain and

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Why We Remember Pain More Than Happiness?

Why We Remember Pain More Than Happiness? Why I kept count of my pain while letting the joy fade?   I don’t live in the past painful chapters of my life but pain still lives inside me. It’s a new day but I haven’t yet fully embraced it. A part of me is often found

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Empathy Fatigue: When Empathy Becomes Exhaustion in a Good Man

Empathy Fatigue: When Empathy Becomes Exhaustion in a Good

Empathy Fatigue: When empathy becomes exhaustion in a good man. Even at their breaking point, empaths don’t blame. They look within to recalibrate. They introspect to build healthier ways of expressing empathy. Yes, I am speaking to you — the empath who is facing empathy fatigue. You feel you have a vast room in your heart to

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How to Thrive, not Just Survive, when your Life is Falling apart?

How to Thrive, not Just Survive, when your Life is Falling apart? The damage does not happen when there is an attack, it happens when you fail to fight the attack. It is not the adverse situation that causes disturbance in life, it is when you don’t know how to handle it right. When met

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How to deal with difficult family members-Break the Cycle and make the relationship healthier.

How to deal with difficult family members-Break the Cycle and make the relationship healthier. “You can choose your friends but you sho’ can’t choose your family, an’ they’re still kin to you no matter whether you acknowledge ’em or not, and it makes you look right silly when you don’t.” ― Harper Lee, To Kill

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How to stop overthinking everything? The right way to deal with it.

How to stop Overthinking Everything?

How to stop Overthinking Everything? The Right Way to deal with it. “We suffer more in imagination than in reality”. ~ Seneca How to stop Overthinking Everything? The Right Way to deal with it. Overthinking is not lethal, but it makes your Life dead.    You listen to your thoughts for 525600 minutes, that’s 365

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Why is consistency important? How to be Consistent: 4 powerful mind shifts

Why is consistency important? 4 powerful mind shifts to be consistent

Why is consistency important? 4 powerful mind shifts to be consistent “Almost everybody can stay excited for 2 or 3 months. A few people can stay excited for 2 or 3 years. But a winner will stay excited for 30 years or however long it takes to win.” Art Williams Why is consistency important? 4

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How to be happy always: The art of happiness

How to be happy always: The art of happiness

How to be happy always? The art of Happiness Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances , to choose one’s own way. ~ Victor Frankl How to be Happy always: The art of Happiness Not most of

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Why does the person you love the most, hurt you the most? 3 Mindshifts I made to deal with it.

Why does the person you love the most, hurt you the most? 3 Mindshifts I made to deal with it.

Why does the person you love the most, hurt you the most? 3 Mindshifts I made to deal with it.   Why does the person you love the most hurts you the most? The bigger the investment, the more your chances to bear the loss. A stranger can harm you but not break you.  It’s

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